Paul Gilbert

To Be With You

Paul Gilbert · Lean Into It · 1991

What Makes This Sound Unique

Mr. Big's acoustic-flavoured ballad showcases Paul's melodic side — clean fingerpicking into a warm combo, a world away from the shred tone. The restraint here is what makes it effective: sustained notes, deliberate vibrato, and clean articulation.

  1. 1Ibanez RG (clean channel, neck pickup, volume 7)
  2. 2Fender or Marshall clean channel
  3. 3Slight hall reverb
Gain / Volume2
Bass6
Mid7
Treble6
Reverb5

Completely clean — the chord melody intro uses minimal compression. Reverb adds space but should not wash out the pick attack of individual notes.

How to Play It

Fingerpicking with thumb and first two fingers — an unusual approach for a primarily plectrum player, chosen because it gives the chords a rounder attack than a pick. Paul's vibrato here is wide and slow, distinctly different from his shred vibrato.

Achievable With

Any clean-sounding guitar → Fender Blues Junior or any clean amp channel → medium hall reverb. A Stratocaster neck pickup captures the rounded warmth of the original.

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